Death, The Ultimate Destination

Death, the ultimate destination.

As the word Death is not new for all of us because it is a part of our life which everyone is going to face one day. It doesn’t allow us to speak or move any more when it comes because we don’t have any control over it. But the question of how I will be treated after my life has been there in my mind over the years. And it may have haunted few among you whenever you may have been thinking about it in your life.

How I will be treated after Death:

Nobody wants to leave this world in a way that we are being  taken away by the process which is called death. It has no fixed place or time that we may be knowing how and when it is going to hug us and take our life away from us. This will be the most disturbing moment when we will be witnessing our last breaths. But we have to face it and there will be no chance to have our life back for a few seconds or minutes so that we can say goodbyes to our dear ones.

Some people may be feeling sad about you and some may be loving it depending on how you have lived up your life. Few people who may be feeling sad include your family, friends or the relatives but there may be a section of people who may be feeling good about your destiny because you may have stood up for yourself in building the lives of your loved one’s which include your family and friends.

How people will behave with my body:

I am sure nobody  is being called by his/her name after his death. Same will be the case with our corpus, where we will not be called by our name that we were having with us over a period of time. The name that has given a certain identity and was like a tag in our whole life. But the time has changed and if anybody may talk about you that will be like, “Bring the dead body here and there” and some may be calling for the last bath where some may be asking for the last rites like bring the dead body for the last bath or rites. But nobody will call you up by your name. What the people may be calling you is the body that has no life. Some may be calling the corpus a soul who has witnessed a good in life and that may include your loved ones.

Some people may be counting your mistakes that you may have committed unintentionally. But you may be the one who will be waiting for the last rites or waiting for the last goodbyes from your family, friends, relatives or from the people who have been a part of your life or may have come across  your life.

This certain period of time when you will be gathered by a number of people will be nothing less than a crowd in a circus who will be looking forward to their life while making your last rites.

But there will be one person who may be losing you more than anything in life. He/she may be feeling that the whole world has been taken away from him/her. But the people who may not be calling you by your name anymore may be comforting them in the crowd which will be seen nowhere  after performing your rites.

Your family will be left alone in a few days holding your pain in their hearts. They will feel helpless and that will be the worst nightmare which may have no end  for the years to come.

How  things will change for your loved ones:

With the passage of time, your loved ones will also start a new way of life while you will be missed or remembered but the people who may have performed your last rites may force them to build their lives again either by bullying them or pointing out the weakness that may have come after losing you. But to stand and fight for the rights will be the priority of your family rather than to remain in a state of grief or carrying your thoughts while fighting against the people who may be hurting them. It may be your family and close friends who will miss you the most and nobody else.

And the time will come where you will be no more discussed and you will be only remembered in prayers by your family who may be wishing for your goodness where your soul may be lying without your dear ones with whom you have lived up your life for years or decades.

Lastly, I would like to say let us live our life doing good for us and for others. Let us help each other and make this life beautiful for everyone because we have to leave this place anytime soon after which we will be remembered in prayers by a few including those whom we may have helped in our life. Let us stand for each other and make this world a beautiful place.

Note: This post does not represent  any religious sect but the views that you may be seeing in this post are the Author's own  while describing his own way of looking at the Death. 

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Why People Change

 We live in a world full of uncertainty and there is every possibility that anything can happen in the next few minutes or hours. We may call it life or the change that has happened either for the good or bad depending on the situation.

The new happening or the change that has taken place has an impact on everything. If it is the change in behavior of a person, then it also has an impact on the lives of others.

Effects of Change:

The change in behavior of a person in a society may result in breaking or making of bonds. It can build relations or can hack anything that comes in its way after the change in one’s thinking or behavior. It can lead us sometimes towards the good or it can bring worse in one’s life. But nobody has control over it when it is about to take place. The people who may be knowing each other for decades become strangers in a few hours and don’t talk to each other any more. Some feel broken and some love to change but the effects that it brings on the lives of people are worth it to get lessons in life and we choose our new steps of life with more consciousness and stop believing on others easily.

Why People around us change:

People usually change because of the circumstances that may be doing rounds around them over a period of time. And to go along with them or move away from them, forces people to make a change in behavior or thinking which not only affects  one’s personality but also has a great impact on other lives.

The change of one person can destroy relations rather than  help them to build strong. Friendships can even witness a big blow if a friend gets changed. The expectations from a person seems broken and shattered if the person that you may be loving gets changed without any cause.

What makes people change:

1. That a person is not being respected by people around him.

2. That a person has achieved something great in life and doesn't care about others feels like he is above all.

3. That a person tries to be over smart and doesn't offer respect to others.

4. A changing person forgets about his past and believes more in new happening in life.

5. A changing person often starts ignoring people around him because he doesn't want to stay with them any more.

 Moreover, the people who may be changing do not want to stay with old friends or colleagues because the new things happening in their life make them feel better than their friends or the people who have been there for them over years.

Some people change because they did not want to be with people who may have failed in life in getting a job or achieving something good in their life that may have brought them at par with the successful friends or the changing people. The people who change because their friends have failed are the ones who don’t want to owe them any more and try to stay away from them at any cost.

Many people change because their ideas differ with the passage of time and they fail to go along side by side. These kinds  of people start arguing with each other on little or pity issues which later on force them not to face each other anymore.

How to behave if people around you change:

If a person who has been with you for years has changed suddenly and are showing signs of ignorance then you need to behave in a way that will be good for you for the days to come.

If you love the person who has changed and has stopped talking to you, make an effort and tell them that you love and owe them as a friend or person who has been close to your heart irrespective of the position that he may be carrying. But if the person did not respond to your call then let them go and don’t beg for your friendship before the person who is not willing to stay with you as your friend.

Similarly, if the people who have been part of your life have changed  and left you alone, let them go and try to start your life in a new way. One thing I want to tell you that you should not let your life suffer because of the people who don’t want to owe you as a friend. There is a long way to go rather than to feel suppressed in your life because of the people or the friends who have left you alone after decades.

In some cases we should take care that there may be other reasons for the person to change and that  may have happened either the person may have suffered a lot or had experienced a lot in life which needs to be respected and let them live their life according to their will. There may be other reasons by which people start ignoring other people and change because of the situations that arise suddenly in one’s life. This kind of change is not by choice but it is the time that has forced them to change or to behave like the way, a person may be behaving.

Some friends may be ignoring you because their life or your life  may get disrupted by staying in touch with each other but remember  you may be in their hearts all the time. Change is the law of nature and we should accept it no matter who is changing and for what reason.

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skills to learn in life

 Skill is the ability to  do something good or to get an expertise of something that helps you in life. It is basically a new way  of looking at things that one acquires with time whether it is time management, conflict management or eager to learn new things that benefit us as an individual in one way or the other.

Why is it important to have a skill?

As the competition is growing more and more in today’s world where the employers hire only people who have better skills or we can say those who have something extraordinary to show off  that can benefit the company or the institution in the long run. So to learn new skills in life has become mandatory for all of us if we are looking for jobs. Its importance has grown over time as the employers hire only people who have some kind of skill because the companies have adapted themselves to certain changes over a period of time for better results. Every company wants to go with a certain group of people who can beat others in the race and that is  why they are looking for candidates who can bring out better results in a specific period of time by utilizing their acquired skills.

How skill can be imparted?

There are many ways by which skill can be imparted to people who want to learn new skills in life for a better future. Skill learning centers or institutes should be established where the trainers should impart new skills to the youth which can help them to live a sustainable life or make them fit for the companies who want to hire people with some specific skills. We can establish community centers where any age group of people can join and learn something good that will not only help them in earning their livelihood but that will definitely help the country in the long run and they will be in a certain place where they can contribute a little bit in the development of the country. Moreover, there should be self determination and dedication for learning new skills in life.

Few Skills that you can learn

1. Typing: It is one among the good skills  that you should learn in your life. It will definitely help you to work as a freelancer for some data entry projects or you can land a job in a good company where you can show your typing skills. Typing makes you a different person than others as you don’t have to look towards the keyboard while writing any sort of content.

2. Translating languages: It is one among the best skills that should acquire and experience something new in life. This kind of skill is in demand in both government and private sectors and it will help you to get a job in both the sectors. It is a skill where you have an upper hand on languages that may or may not belong to your regional ones. To learn this kind of skill will definitely help you in the long race of getting jobs in any of the reputed companies.

3. Website Building: It is not that easy to build a website as it needs coding knowledge and you should try to learn that skill. By doing that you will be able to build websites for others and you can bid on projects related to website building on freelance. There are people who want to get their websites built for business units as they don’t know any kind of coding. So to learn this kind of skill will help you get your clients around your locality or all over the world by promoting your skill by bidding on projects on freelance.

4. Leadership skills: It is one of the best skills that one should learn in life. A team who works together needs a leader to get the task done is a specific period of time which is also another type of skill I,e time management. To lead the team and make things happen for the company or for the place where you work, you have to develop some kind of leadership qualities in you and explore yourself as a person who may be able to lead the team in a better way. So, learning this kind of skill will be a plus point that can put you on the top among your colleagues.

5. Oral and writing communication skill: We know that some people fail to communicate with others and are not able to present themselves to others in a good way. Oral and writing skills make it easier to communicate with others without putting too much effort. To have this kind of skill you need to learn to speak fluently or you should be able to present your projects in a written way so that your colleagues or boss can understand your vision clearly. By having this kind of skill you can also mention that in resumes that you mostly send to companies to get hired for your dream jobs.

Besides the above mentioned skills, here are a list of few skills that employers usually look for

·   Decision making

·   Problem solving

·   Determination and persistence

·   Conflict management

·   Adaptability

·   Self Motivation

·   Confidence

·   Ability to work in harmony with co-workers

·   Eager and willing to  add to their knowledge base and skills.

We need to impart all the skills in our life because the work environment in today’s world demands it from us as the companies have found new ways of working for better production or the results.

The companies are looking for candidates who may have an upper hand on others in one way or the other. So learn new skills in order to get fit for the job and adapt yourself according to the changes like the way companies have adapted themselves over the decades.

Lastly, I would like to say that by learning new skills in life will pave the way for something good that can help you to live a life where you can feel safe and secure and no worries of not getting hired for the job.

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