Why should we avoid bad habits

Habit is the practice of doing things constantly which is acquired by a person and forms a part of his behavior with the passage of time. It is an important part of our life by which we are designated as to what kind of person we are i.e good or bad.

Habits are of two types; good and bad  habits:

Good Habits are a kind of habit which do not hurt us or the society we live in or we can say that good habits are those habits by which we get respected or praised by others in the society.

Bad Habits are a kind of habit which hurt us or the society we live in or we can say that bad habits are those kinds of habits by which people get irritated by our acts or actions that we do in our daily routine.

Some bad habits do not affect our health but they definitely hurt us as a person by affecting our personality which results in getting disrespected by others in our society. Habits leave footprints on our life which sometimes decides our future either by acquiring or losing our job, as our personality has a big impact on our life.

Different people have different habits; some people talk continuously, some smoke or drink, Some people help the poor or perform charity. On the basis of actions we perform in our daily life, society easily designates us as to what kind of habits we have acquired over a certain period of time.

If we have good habits, society praises us and we may become role models for others. And if the person has bad habits, he is hated by many people around him. On many occasions, people don’t show them the hate they have for their bad habits. But to hate the bad habits of a person does not mean to isolate the person in society for his bad habits but to realize that it is not good to have a bad habit in one’s life.

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Mostly bad habits have a negative impact on one’s own life but at times the person with bad habits is responsible for so many bad social issues among which one is domestic violence against the women folk due to alcohol usage of the married men. 

Alcohol usage not only affects one’s own health but also makes the life of others miserable including one's family members. This kind of bad habit leaves a person paralyzed and makes their own life unstable in terms of financial income. This kind of bad habit is responsible for domestic violence against women and gives birth to criminals in the society who perform robbery or other bad social acts that need to be eradicated. So avoiding this bad habit may lead us to build a sustainable life and make society a better place to live in.

Cigarette smoking is one of the bad habits that most people acquire in their life. It affects one’s own health and puts the lives of others in danger also. Most of the wealth of the smokers go waste in lighting the cigarette and the other people around the smoker get irritated by bad habits of smoking in public.

Back bitting is also one of the bad habits which some of the people have acquired in their life for no reason. It is responsible for leading other people towards depression or anxiety as the backbiters have the habit of putting other people down in front of others. These people are most disrespected in society and everybody around them wants to go away. We need to give up this kind of habit as it hurts our personality and puts the lives of others at risk. 

Garrulous nature of the people is one of the bad habits which most of the people have acquired in their life unintentionally. They talk more without realizing that either somebody is interested in their conversation or not.

They want to be listened to at any cost no matter if their words may be worth or not. This kind of bad habit needs to be given up as it not only has a  bad impact on our personality but most of the people want to go away from the person who has this kind of bad habit. We need to get rid of this kind of bad habit so that our words get the real value and influence while we talk to others.

Not listening to elders is one of the bad habits that almost all people have acquired in their lives. It is one of the bad habits which definitely will become a social issue in the coming years as the younger generation is heading towards the world where they don’t want to be interrupted for their acts no matter if they are right or wrong.

Not listening to others or elders may prove fatal in one’s life as we have acquired the habit of doing things on our own without taking anyone into consideration.

Most of the families separated because of this bad habit; if the elder one in a family advises or gives suggestions to a younger one in the family, the advice or suggestions are opposed and the younger member is not ready to accept the things that the elder one’s in the family have acquired throughout their life.

This kind of bad habit needs to be changed so that we can make better decisions in life by listening to others or our parents who want to see us grow in our life.

Waking up late in the morning is one of the bad habits that most people have acquired in their lives. This kind of bad habit does not allow us to start our day in a  good way and hinders us from achieving our goals. We must avoid this bad habit as that will help us to start our day with more freshness and clear imagination. We will be able to focus on our work or on our studies in a better way.

Spitting in public places is another bad habit that can be seen in most of the people. It not only irritates others but is also unhygienic. Some people can be seen chewing tobacco products and spit the same on roads which are mostly seen among natives of the states of India. This kind of bad habit must be avoided that will definitely help us to keep our surroundings clean and most importantly we may give up the habit that may be annoying others.

Addiction to social media platforms is one of the bad habits that most of the population has acquired with the passage of time. Everybody in the family can be seen using smartphones and rolling their thumbs on social media platforms which have definitely harmed the value of our relationships.

This kind of habit is affecting the studies of children and furthermore, the addiction towards online games like PUBG has also driven many people towards hospital beds. We must avoid this bad habit of sticking to our smartphones as it not only affects our mental health but also becomes a hurdle in our careers. 

There are so many other bad habits that can not be summarized in one post. As a human being, we acquire some habits by our actions and later our mind performs them subconsciously which sometimes become a big hurdle in our life. Bad habits did not allow us to perform according to our will. our mind becomes dependent on them and performs these annoying acts subconsciously.

If we are close to something big in our life, suddenly we display the bad habits that may have become normal actions for us over the years as our mind tries to put less effort while performing acts and we end up losing our jobs or the credit we were waiting for. 

So we should avoid bad habits in our life and also help others to stay away from them so that we can live a better life as a person. By avoiding such habits we will be respected and praised for our good actions that may benefit society and may help others to make a change in their life by changing our habits for good.

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Why should we move on in life?

We are surrounded by people whom we know or communicate with them in our life. Some are our friends and some seem to be our big enemies but they too are from our community and we have to live with them.

All people are known by their personality and the attitude they built towards us by which we easily came to know whether they like us or not. We at times can come to a conclusion about their imagination that they had built towards us in their mind.

We are not so deaf and dumb that we can’t judge what they think about our life. Some people around you want to see you grow more and more in your life and that maybe your family or friends whom you love the most. But other people don’t want you to see happiness in your life.

They will never think of good for you and will never appreciate you for your good work rather they will search for your mistakes and will highlight them in front of your family, friends, or relatives. They will definitely leave no stone unturned to let you down so that people will start disrespecting you.

If the people around you don’t like your way of dealing with things, just ignore them. If they want to engage you in things that you don’t want to deal with just leave them apart and focus on the work you have in your priority list. And if you complete your work in a good manner, that will be the worst nightmare for them.

If they target your job or land, just follow the procedure of the law. By a few clicks, you will be able to know about the law that can hit them back and lay them down on their knees.

If they hate you, go away from them and don’t care much about them and just work on things you need to finish.

If they keep hurting you, just find new ways to deal with them and try to move on. You should not make their efforts to suppress you in your life. You should try to make things good for you and never let them win your life.

But some people know how to deal with people who let you down or try to harm you in many ways. They stand up and can go for anything and they don’t care who they are?. These people don’t care about their jobs or anything but they definitely care about the family that they love the most and the future generations that their family may see in the coming years.

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But I will tell you one thing and remember that in life “You have to stand up for yourself when you need it”. If we can't’ stand up for ourselves we will never be able to defeat our enemies. 

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People who don’t have enemies may have never stood up for anything good in their life. And those who speak up for themselves and for the people whom they love, have lots of other people in the queue to let them down in their life. They always are in search of getting a chance to make this happen so that they will do whatever they want to do with you.

We have lots of people around us who sometimes make a team and try to harm you in many ways. They try to make you feel alone so that you will give up and leave the place and ask them for pardon. Their soft attacks maybe your job, land, or the family whom you care about the most.

But if you want to make sure that the future of your family and the generation to come should be safe and secure then you have to deal with these kinds of people no matter how hard it will be. You have to fight for your right and for the family which may be suffering from those kinds of people.

These kinds of people need to be defeated at any cost so that you may live a peaceful life but that may leave you paralyzed for the rest of your life.

They may target your job and you may end up losing it. They may grab your land and you can’t do anything. But there is one thing that you can do is that you can teach them a lesson of their life which they can remember for long in their life. 

If you succeed in it, you will love it and feel safer and secure than ever. You will be the hero of your family and nobody will try to harm you again in the future. And if anybody will think of making you harm, he may be forced to think hundred times by your past lessons before going for it. 

How can you defeat your enemies?

We as human beings are prone to emotions like anger and happiness. Sometimes we feel depressed and don’t know how to deal with the bad phase of life that we may be going through.

If  I could tell you what I do whenever I feel the same, I usually go for asleep even if it is the daytime and after waking up I plan things and decide what to do? And How to do it? And most of the time I have succeeded in coming out of the bad phases of life.

What we do is most of us feel worried when we come across such incidents in our life. We keep on searching “How to deal with it?” and read some stuff on the Internet and just close the page. But the reality is life is different and it needs to deal according to the situation that we may be going through.

Sometimes the stuff seems far more away from our problems and we are forced to deal with the situation without any sort of help. We may find anybody or nobody who can help us to deal with such kinds of people.

And if I ask you that it needs the skill to deal with such kind of people who try to let you down always for what you do,  then you need to develop it. Those people who don’t have any experience of dealing with such kinds of people. They feel scared, lonely, and just find a way to escape from the reality and the harm they may be facing. 
 
If any of the guys like you face discrimination, "just stand up for yourself and your family". You may be the one who has the responsibility of securing your family and for the better future that your family may be wishing for.

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Never laugh at somebody’s poverty

Never laugh at somebody’s poverty sounds different for all of us. We all live together in colonies or communities and form a society. We have different lifestyles with different ways of interacting with others. We have different sources of income whether one is a labor, a government servant, or a businessman.

What needs to be done? 

We go out to work for the day, earn, and feed our families every night. Some people work for the whole month and wait for their salaries. Based on the income that we have on a monthly or yearly basis, society divides us from one another. 

We neither call ourselves a rich or a poor person but it is the society that differentiates us from one another by dividing us into categories i.e rich and the poor and we have to live with that given tag.
 

Struggle in Life

Our life is full of struggle and if one is rich, he may become poor and if there is a poor person, he may become rich as the time passes. As such the given tags keep on changing in society. There is also a kind of people in our society who do not realize or are unable to make any change in their life to become rich.

However, this section of people continuously makes efforts along with their families to live a sustainable life and with an aim not to depend on others in the future.

In such a hue and cry, some people get depressed and some move forward after getting positive results. If a person has the aim of getting rich, he always keeps on finding new ways of life by which he can get an idea and decide what to do and what not? This kind of experience comes from the lessons of life we keep on learning over years.

Life Mistakes

By doing mistakes in life, we at times change our way or search for new ways of income so that our children, family, or future generations will be able to live a better life. But we should remember that nobody among us wants to remain poor but some people lack resources and are living a life where they can't overcome poverty. These kinds of people lack resources like land or have suffered from war crimes and other natural calamities.

 
We should remember that poor people are a part of our society and we should not ignore them or make them feel pity by our actions or thoughts that we pass on them. We are living in a world full of technology and we need to take them along with us to make the world a better place.

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Now the question may arise in our minds that “How can we uplift them?”  and the answer is yes we can make their lives better. We have different people who have succeeded in life and are respected based on great income and own different business establishments or we can say that they have already made their own life and their dependents better.

Provide them opportunity

They can help in providing job opportunities to poor people or can establish charity organizations by which poor people can be uplifted in their life.

 
We can establish charity centers and work side by side with the government which will help in eradicating poverty from society and prevent the poor from facing any kind of discrimination. The influencers should come forward who had a great influence on society and speak for them and organize charity workshops so that the people who are going through this social issue may live a better life shortly.
 
But among us, some people laugh at somebody’s poverty or ignore them in public transport as they think they are superior to poor people. These kinds of people let them down every time and that is why poverty has become a major social issue that needs to be eradicated. It has become a source of discrimination in society and can be debated for hours. But as human beings, we must not let down our soul by performing unnecessary or nonsense acts and ignore the poor for no reason.

Psychological impact

It not only affects our personality but also affects them in such a way that they find themselves in a world that seems strange to them and had a psychological impact on their mind and may take years for them to overcome the trauma caused by the discrimination.
 
This social distance or discrimination prevents them from starting new things in life as they feel that they can’t make the things right for them as they had already labeled by society as poor. So they continue to their life as it has been for them over years. 

We need to change our behavior and be kind to poor people. We should respect them and also teach our children to treat them in the same way as they treat their parents. This will not only make them a good person but also prove beneficial in the coming years to eradicate this poverty from society which has become a major social issue.
 
Apart from this, we must know that nobody wants to be poor in life, but there are several reasons which are responsible for being a poor person. A person can be poor because he may be suffering from problems that we may not be aware of or he may be a war victim. Natural calamities also hold a major share in making the people poor as it leaves them paralyzed and drives them in a way that they never liked before.
 

People of Rural Areas

Most of the population of poor people live in rural areas and don’t know much about the modern world which provides a way out to overcome poverty. They either lack resources or don’t have any information about the things that can help them to live a better and sustainable life. We need to educate them about the new means of life so that they can uplift themselves for a better tomorrow.
 
We should respect the poor and their poverty just by keeping in mind that our families may have been through the same. We should remember the efforts that our grandfathers our ancestors have made for securing our future. I personally think for a family who falls in the middle-class category and is living a life of above poverty line class, this may be the outcome of efforts of a few generations that they have put together to uplift their family for future generations.
 
We know that the majority of the capital lies in the hands of few people and we belong to a community of the middle class who holds a good number of poor people. So it is our responsibility to highlight issues like poverty.

Social Issues

It is a social issue that needs to be addressed at an earliest so that the poor may not be discriminated against based on their income. We need to help them in terms of giving away some money and prevent them from begging.
 
In the end, I would like to say that we should respect their emotions and not laugh at them for being poor. This will not only help them in finding new ways of life but will also help us too to give birth to a person which the society is in dire need for years.
 
Let us pledge that we stand up for poverty and the discrimination, the poor people are facing in their daily life. Let us stop giving respect based on income and treat everyone equally. This will make the world a better place for sure.

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