Why every day is a Father Day?

As human beings, we are prone to emotions like happiness, anger, and sadness. Some times we feel loved by our family members and particularly by the two persons whom we call parents. They love and care for us without finding any reason and are so deeply and emotionally attached to us that we may never be able to find another person like them in whole life who will take care of us the way they do for us as their children.

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Father and Mother are the blessings that anybody should be proud of and when at times we feel broken deep inside or sad, the two words that come out of our mind is the Mother and the Father as the person feels that they are the one’s who could help him to get out of that bad phase of life. 

That is why we have many reasons to celebrate the Mother or Father’s day. Let me talk about the Father’s day in this post as he is one of the most precious gifts that we have in our lives and feels blessed while having them around us.

Why Every Day is Father’s Day?

As we all know that  Father’s day is celebrated on the 3^rd Sunday of June and this year in 2020 it will on June 21.  In the U.S.A, it was started in 1910 to honor the fathers for their efforts and their contribution towards society. A father is the first tutor of his children as he guides and shows us the way of our dreams that we dream of in our childhood days. He brings us up, pays our school fee, and prepares us to be an independent person in our life.

He sacrifices everything for his children and always stands with them side by side while they pursue their dreams. He teaches us what to do and how to do that to get the things done according to our will. He does not want to see us suffer in our life rather he hopes for our better life than him.

He always wants to see you above all so that  you could  live your life independently of the things and worries that may have haunted him in his own life. He wants to  see you grow as a successful person in life and never awaits for anything in return.

He celebrates your every success along with you and stands beside you for every failure that you came across in your life. He is the one who holds your hand motivates you for doing great things and keeps you supporting so that you can pursue the dreams of your choice. He never let you down no matter how deep he may be broken inside or the hardships that he may be facing while supporting his family and his  children. 

He keeps you offering his blood, toil, sweat, and what not for the things that you want to achieve and wants to see in you a good person who he may have dreamed of inside. But at times we are did not recognize  his efforts and hardships  when we stay  together and we remember their efforts when they leave us halfway or we leave them to live on their own when we become very successful persons.

But there are many people like me who may have lost their father early on in their life and are going through the bad phase of life that they never expected while they were holding the finger of their father in childhood days. 

Challenging life

This kind of people grew up going through hardships and face every challenge that other people put forth for them without any reason. They try to raise their voice for good and try to start a new life but they are being made the victims by one person or the other for their own benefits.

In a society full of greedy and selfish people, they are not able to pursue their dreams and become soft targets to the people who use them for their worldly desires as they feel that they don’t have anyone left to support them or stand with them that could hinder them to perform such nonsense acts.

At this point in time, the pain of losing a father is much higher than ever you may have imagined as the heart that feels broken deep inside needs someone to listen to our cries and made us feel comfortable. 

But the efforts that you made to get heard by somebody seems your words don’t have such kind of value  left like before as there is no one like your father who is willing to understand your pain, your frustration, or the sadness and make a way for you to get out of this situation. If he would have been there the situation for you may have been different or the people who let you suffer may have refrained from doing such kinds of acts.

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Some people overcome these challenges and some are forced to live a stressed life. They are forced to believe that there is nothing left for them now and they lose their battle with life while facing depression and stress. As they have lost their special person in life who could have made their present and future better than anybody else. 

So there are thousands of reasons why we should  celebrate the Fathers day and honor them for their  dedication and sacrifices that they had laid down for us while making   us  a better person

And for those who still have their fathers with them are the ones who have much more left to their life. They should feel blessed and respect them at any cost and know their value, their hardships, and the sacrifices which they perform in their life to keep their family happy and moving. So to celebrate Father's day will we worth it and they will be able to let them know that they remember what their father is doing for them. 

Life Celebrations

We celebrate it to remind them of their sacrifices, the love that they had showered on us for decades and for standing beside us to help us to overcome the challenges that we had faced over the years as their children or as a person.

We show them the respect and  the love that we have for them in our life and remind them that how much impact they had made on our life that we are living today. Keeping in  mind the things that we mentioned above drive us to the point that every day is a Father's day and we should respect and honor them as much as possible.

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Use of Digital Services in our Daily Life

The Internet has been a part of our life for several decades. It has changed our lives for many years and has given birth to a society in a Digital World which has made our lives easier than ever before. The Digital World has given a new meaning to life and made complicated things so simple that everybody wants to switch over his life to Digital Services.

What are Digital Services?

The Services provided or used by a user on an electronic device like a phone, tablet, or computer for gathering information or to transfer it to another end by using the internet or we can say that the service that is done by using the Internet is known as Digital Service.

Use of Digital Services:

Digital Services  has made a great impact on our life as the things or work that was done in a few days or months in primitive times  are now a minute away from us whether it is the banking transaction, business related  matters or booking of  travel tickets to move from one place to another by using air services. 

It has transformed our daily life to a great extent and has made our life comfortable in which everyone has a reason to live in Digital World. The services that man has dreamed of has now become a reality  and can be accessed from anywhere  in the world whether it is a banking transaction for a school fee, buying a product from an online platform or reading  an E-Book.

The messaging Services through Digital Platforms like Whatsapp or Facebook messengers  or by using any other digital services have always helped in building relations that keeps us  in touch with loved ones by making our connectivity easier than ever before.

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Educator Sector

There are several other sectors that are influenced by digital services. The Education sector has seen a major revolution over several years by switching from its traditional mode of learning to an online mode through various Digital Services or platforms like Youtube and Zoom which has seen a major boost of using these services during tough times. These platforms have saved the careers of millions of students and job aspirants and the institutions are working on it to get switched to these Digital Services permanently.

Business Sector

The Business Sector has also seen a major revolution by switching to digital services for several years. The Online (E-Commerce) marketing has seen a  major growth  and buying a product from home has become a reality nowadays as people need not go out, get stuck in traffic jam for hours losing both their time and energy. But the products that they wish for are in their smartphones and anytime by using the digital service they can set up an order and get the product of their choice delivered.

In addition to this, amid the growing unemployment in our society, the Digital Services has given a way out by employing the unemployed. Some are Freelancers and some social media influencers generating their livelihood by providing digital services or delivering the same through various platforms. These services have been able to provide jobs to millions of people all around the world and made their lives better.

These services have no end  to count as it  has influenced our lives to a great extent whether it is taking a medical appointment by using an online service or the reports that can be prepared by using the digital platform. 

Digital Services through Online Platforms

The appointees are nowadays able to get their reports delivered through online digital services and see them while sitting at home. Moreover, there are online platforms that have made easier to order for a prescribed drug advised  by a doctor if the need arises no matter whether  you are ordering it during the night or abroad daylight. So the impact of digital services in our life can be imagined through these examples that are related to our life.

Digital Services like E-mails, meetings through video-conferencing, or the court hearings have made a great change in the overall scenario of day to day working whether you are a Govt. employee or own a private company. 

The government institutions delivering their services from booking a train ticket to enroll oneself into a voting list of the  country has been among the few  remarkable achievements of digital services that has transformed everything for a better cause.

Government Services

These services are also  a source of entertainment and people spent most of the time by using these services to a great extent. The spike or surge in internet usage from several years has also resulted in using the digital services by a majority of the population and are expected to grow more and moreover next few years as the government institutions are educating people about the schemes that can be easily accessed by using a digital platform and get benefited. 

Moreover these  digital services are  utilized for registering an electricity or water supply connection by the households and the bill payments related to it  can be done in an easy way without wasting time.  Almost all the services are made available online and have seen a great response from almost all the sections of society and particularly by those who can use it through their smartphones.

Digital Services

Digital Services like Weather apps that provide information about the climatic conditions have made people dependent on a service like this as the plans related to weddings, travel, vacation or   harvesting of crops that mainly depend on climate behavior are mainly decided by knowing the weather conditions through these services.

Apart from these above mentioned facts, the influence of Digital services on our life can not be fully summarized in  a single post but the impact of these services are so deep in our lives  that we may not be able to survive without them.  

So to depend on these services need no reason above all but to stick to them for a better and easy to use the experience as  people are getting doorstep delivery of services either by government institutions or the private sector either at no charge or less. 

Moreover, the  most important aspect  of these Digital services is that they have been able to save our precious time, made our life digital and provide us the comfort zone that has helped us in saving our energy for other means of life.

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How do failure and success influence our daily life?

                                                        

Life is full of struggle and everybody wants to live it comfortably. We may call it the need for one’s survival or the changes in which one adapts for a better life. It is like the ship sailing in a river and wants to reach the other bank of it as soon as possible. 

But the winds that storm the life made some people kneel down before it and lost their hope in the middle of the sea, which shatters their dreams completely for the rest of their life. They never try again to cross the same river which left them paralyzed in their life. If they somehow survive, they either change their way or never try to go through the same sea as they fear that their ship may get drowned this time.

On the other hand, some people may or may not fear but they keep trying to cross the sea along with the ship and start their life on the other side of the river. They may get wounded but they never try to look back while crossing it. They are those who just go inch by inch while facing the winds and reach their destination where they feel relaxed and breathe deep for the rest of their lives.

HOW FAILURE INFLUENCE IN OUR DAILY LIFE:

Nobody wants to get labeled as a failure in his/her life by others until one accepts it on their own. It is in one’s blood to keep struggling in their own life whether one is labor, an academician, or a student. Labour tries to improve his skills in his own way and an academician in his own way. A student struggles in his own way but the aim or focus of all remains the same that they have to succeed in their life for a better tomorrow.

But some fail to make it as desired by them and the people around they start to call them failures. The label of failure for the people for whom the things did not work according to their will has ranked high in the society over the decades and has made some people's lives miserable and they give up about everything. 

They don’t care more about their life after the label of failure is imposed on them. It is an old saying that “Failure slaps you in public” as one gets ashamed of himself after a great struggle and sacrifice which he may have given for the dream gets vanished or remains unachieved in one’s life. 

The person whom we call as a failure enters into a life where he may feel alone, broken, and what not?  But instead of encouraging them for more, we label them as a failure and act as mute spectators while they face the worst crisis in their life. 

The people with the label of failure live their life as losers as they feel devastated and feels that they had nothing left to work on in their life. Some overcome this stress while others lose hope and learn to live in the same way as life drives them for the rest of their life.

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HOW SUCCESS INFLUENCE OUR DAILY LIFE:

On the other hand, there are people who feel good in their life as they have either make their dreams big or get labeled as successful persons after crossing the stormy winds which they may have faced in their life while attempting to achieve something good according to their own will. 

They usually are the ones who comfortably live their life and care much about things they do in their life. They had many reasons for doing so because they are already labeled as successful persons.  They feel safe and secure in their life in terms of income and did not care much about the future plans whether they will work or not as they had already laid the strong foundation of their life. 

They enjoy their label which the society has chosen for them over the years. They had already earned their respect in society and had a big influence on society and the people around them. They had found the meaning of their life after several years of hard work and many more sacrifices by which they were able to make their dream come true. 

They are the ones who live their life according to their desires as they have earned their place by the efficiency and sacrifices that they have had given for achieving the dream of their will.

Why Should We  Respect both Successful and Failure Persons:

As success and failure are the two categories which life has decided for us in terms of being recognized in society, we should respect both as the people holds a good number in both the categories.

Instead of degrading the lives of people labeled as failures in which I may be the one should be encouraged to find new means of life by finding  ways where they maybe able to prove themselves in a better way. 

They should try to learn new skills in their life and go-ahead to search for an impressive life and remove the label that has been being put on them by which they feel miserable in their lives.

The successful one should be respected in the sense that they were able to make it in a great way and are living a better life. They should try to live other people whom they have left behind in the race which will make our society sustainable and may help in removing the labels by which the lives of many people may be brought back on track again in their life. By doing this the lives of many may be saved and transformed towards a better tomorrow.

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How Democracy deals with poverty?

Our society is a combination of different sects and tribes in which people are further known by being rich or poor and sometimes that leads us to loopholes and abstain from treating every person equally in our modern society. 

So the people are known by the two  categories depends on which one they fall in i.e Rich and the Poor; as both of them have an immense role in nation-building in the sense that one runs the agency and other works in that.

Who is Rich?

A Rich person is the one who has been able to acquire wealth or has resources to generate more and more revenue through various modes of business or make money by employment.

Who is Poor?

A poor person is the one who has less money or has limited resources to generate money for his own survival or his dependents.

How Democracy Deals with poverty?

Every country has a group of leaders to run its affairs. Some countries are having dictators who have an upper control in running their affairs of state and some got elected their leaders by the people through voting giving birth to democracies.

For democratic countries, it has always been challenging to fight against poverty and bring poor people out of this disaster. But most of the countries have failed despite taking steps to overcome poverty.

Countries like Pakistan, Bangladesh, India, Nepal, and many other countries are the worst hit by poverty which has been a great challenge for them over several decades. Poverty sometimes increases the crime rate in society as the struggle for existence has been a major challenge always for a human being. 

Developed Countries

In some developed countries like the United States of America, some people are homeless and pass their nights on the streets. Moreover, poverty has been a global challenge that needs to get prioritized and help the poor to overcome this disaster. 

However, some countries have taken steps individually in addition to their contribution to global organizations.

In democratic countries, various government schemes are meant for poor people to uplift them in their lives. There are more vulnerable groups who have been ignored by a large section of society over the years.

In India, the worlds largest democracy, the government has introduced schemes like Jhan Dhan Yojana, PM Kisan Yojana, MNREGA which have made a big impact on the lives of poor people  by  uplifting them at par with the above poverty line households.

The Schemes like Indira Awas Yojana or Pradhan Mantri Gramin Awaas Yojana, the most remarkable scheme meant for below poverty line households to have a concreted  (Pacca) house structure has  made a big impact on the lives of poor people by not only generating employment but by  uplifting them and made possible that every mud house is replaced by a concreted or a pacca one.

There has also  been a separate scheme for the construction of 100 million toilets in rural India to make India “Open defecation free” which has also been a major development in one of the democratic nations which not only lowered the water pollution but also the health risk factors of poor people in rural India.

New Housing Scheme

In Pakistan a year ago the “New Housing Scheme” was launched by the Prime Minister of Pakistan to provide new houses for the people of the country which is also the worst hit democratic nation by poverty. 

This scheme was meant to make 5 million houses affordable to all the Pakistanis to uplift them in their lives and fight poverty in the country.

There are various other schemes framed by the Government of India which are meant for the below poverty line households whether it is related to their food security or health care.

Recently the Ayushman Bharat scheme launched by the government of India got remarkable appreciation by the poor people of the country as it facilitates them with a  free medical care and has a benefit cover of Rs. 5 lakh per family per year, for which they become eligible after a simple registration process.

Public Distribution System

The Schemes like Public Distribution System related to food security has guaranteed the fixed amount of quantity of food on the monthly basis to all the sections of  society particularly the poor people.
 

The Direct Benefit Transfer schemes which include the transactions related to   the delivery of  Liquefied Petroleum Gas either on subsidy rates or the aspects covered under the scheme which has made possible that every household living under the Below Poverty Line category was given a free cooking LPG Stove along with the cylinder has made a big change on the lives of poor people living in rural areas. 

By this the rural womenfolk was able to  get rid of traditional cooking ways  resulted in low smoke production which has immensely contributed to controlling the air-pollution and decline in health risk factors like asthma among rural people.

The Job Guarantee scheme in India under MNREGA for the poor people has been  the remarkable scheme which has not only made the development of rural areas possible but the locals have been able to get their work daily and securing their day to day earning. 

This scheme has made a significant change in the lives of poor people and for the government, this scheme has also been a landmark in fighting against poverty in the country.

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In addition to these schemes more needs to be done to overcome poverty in countries like India and Pakistan will not only prove beneficial for them by eradicating it but will also increase the pace of development. 

Providing free education to the children of poor people may be one of the great achievements of democratic countries as that will help them to achieve their goal of eradicating poverty at the grass-root level. 

This will uplift the poor people and made them sustainable who will be able to contribute towards the growth of their nation and live better than ever before.

Things you need to know about Selfish People

Selfish people are the ones who are known by their self-centeredness. Their words and actions are entirely different. They may be your friends, relatives, or the people whom you met daily or work with them in an office. 

To know them is better than to go along with them without knowing their behavior which may let you down somewhere in life. They are full of arrogance and think they are the best ones whom you have come across. 

They always feel that they have plans then no one else has and remain busy in searching for their own interest in relations. They love to behave like that everybody follows their orders and don’t want to listen about anything in return.  So the question may arise here, what may be the signs about selfish people.

Here are the few signs about Selfish People which you must know about them:

• They love to do what is good for them and don’t care about the consequences of that on others, even if that may hit them the worst. They fail to keep their promises and their commitments are of no worth to them. They are liars and don’t care what is true and what is false.

• They make plans with you but they are not able to keep them and find a way to get out of them anytime according to their will. They disappear if you need them the most, they will never help you in tough times and did not care whether you live or die in those situations. They are always busy in finding a way of making people happy so that they can get their attention and get admired by them even if they don’t deserve it.

• Selfish People are always full of themselves and there is no one important to them in their life and they don’t make efforts to save others when people need them the most. They build relations only if that will benefit them in one way or the other and don’t care about the feelings of other people whom they keep on cheating in their life. They get their work done either by paying money or praising other people from whom they try to get their work done and try to keep showing themselves in competition with others.

• They did not respect you but they respect your work which you did for them when they ask you for that. They always try to show themselves as victims and need your sympathy for their ill behavior. They did not respect you but they respect your work which you did for them. They are the lazy ones and they try to keep running away from work and get their assigned work done by others and await the credit always from their higher-ups. They keep on covering their laziness and try to show that they are the one who is busy doing work than no one else.

Five ways to stay away from them:

• Try to know them as soon as possible and figure out what the selfish person is looking for from you as a friend or a colleague. Stay true to yourself and don’t love them at all.  

• If you came to know about the selfish person who doesn’t react in such a way that it will bring you to a place where you have to make much effort to save yourself from such an environment where everybody will curse you for your no faults.

• Don’t make them feel bad about you or they will find a way to hurt you always.

• Don’t overreact if you ever came to know that the selfish person has laid you down but remember that and try to handle them diplomatically as it will not only secure you but they will reveal their worst secrets to you.

• Selfish people have always been a deep concern for many and have been the victims of their ill behavior. Many are fed up by their callous attitude towards their friends or colleagues as they have always let them down in front of many for no reason. 

• So to know them and deal with them in their own way is the best strategy one can ever have or else you will be the victim of their fake personality by which they keep on going in their life.

You should not find your place in  them  rather you should keep them going for what they do and do not ask them what is good and what is bad. 

They are always in a worry that if one thing planned by them did not go well;  what they will do the next and in this race they always tend to put a label of inability  on other person and get rid of their responsibilities but at the end, they fall from high where no one else holds their hand and let them suffer more and more.

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The three major skills of a Teacher

The teacher teaches us what we may never be able to learn in our life without him. It is he who drives us in our life from schooling to something big. He fulfills our mind by great thoughts and ideas by which he has acquired himself over the years of hard work and determination and through which he can teach us. He is the one who has an immense role in nation-building and gives birth to leaders, doctors, engineers, bureaucrats, and what not?

              
             

What is the skill?

A skill is the most important thing in today’s world and everybody tends to have it to succeed in life. We all should have a good skill to compete and made an impact on others, whether you are a job seeker or the one who loves to work by improving skills in life for better results. It is the skill that helps a person to get recognized among many others and be hired at an earliest or given the responsibility of being a leader.   Here are the three major skills of  a teacher:

A teacher should be well-disciplined, informative, and able to connect himself with the students at an ease. He should be able to make his point in the best possible way. Apart from this, he should be able to dress properly and develop personality as a one who will build a mindset of being a leader for his students.

A teacher should not try harsh methods to bring the results of his choice out of students in no time. By doing this the students may get afraid of that and many feel that they are not capable of making things right which may work for them any time soon. It will bring a negative impact on their ability and may prove fatal for their performance in the long run.

A Teacher should be friendly with all the students as it will encourage them to interact more and more  with the teacher and may feel comfortable to ask questions about the related topics which will help bring out the positive results from the average students also. There should be no possibility of communication gap between teacher and the average or below average students in the class.

Why Teacher is the most Respectable?

A Teacher is someone who has been able to turn our lives better.  It is he who is more responsive to our good or bad habits in school. He appreciates us for good ones and stops us from going bad to worse. 

Apart from this, he is the one who lives for others, and his whole life passes while teaching others what to do and what not?. Till the goal of others is not reached.  

Do you have one favorite Teacher?

Your answer may be yes because I  too have a one. As it is the favorite one whom you like the most as he has always been there for you when you need answers for your unanswered questions.  

He has always been a mentor of something good whether you met him in school or if he is the one whom you came across in your workplace. A man is himself a student until his death and has a teacher always from whom he learns something new everyday and adopt that in our daily life.

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So we can say that the Teacher's profession is a noble profession who can mend lives for the better and helps in nation-building. It is because of them that the world is growing so fast in technology as the teacher has an immense role in giving birth to great minds of society who have contributed a lot in developing the world and making the lives of people better over the years. 

It is because of them we can distinguish between good and bad and have changed ourselves for good according to the needs and demands of societies around us.

We are encouraged by our teachers to do good deeds in our life and be humble to everyone around us without any discrimination. The teacher teaches us how to be a good human being and helps us to develop some principles of life within us by which we can communicate with others and can make a big impact on others while changing their lives for a better cause.  
                        
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